Top Weekend

It’s about 5pm on a chilly Sunday afternoon.  Cam is on the lounge reading a folksy tale to Annika and I’m procrastinating about folding up the piles of washing.

It has been an absolute top weekend here.  One where I  feel filled up, not the least bit depleted.

There’s been park

Relish making

Slow-cooking (that’s chicken, pumpkin and lentil curry with brown rice in the photo below)

Hand-quilting

and today we went to the Kamaroi May Fair – which was excellent.  This is the Steiner School where we go to playgroup.   My expectations of the day were completely blown away.  The three of us all had a really really good time, and Annika had her first ever pony ride, which after an initial uncertainty, she ended up loving.   What a special place that school is, such a great community.    Among with some great little felty folk  and books for Annika, I got a few more for my own collection…  we ate some incredibly nourishing chicken tagine with quinoa, and scoffed some chocolate cheesecake brownie and chai tea.

Cam’s off to Auckland for most of the week, so will be just me and little A around these parts.  I’ve told him he has to do some research, as we’re currently investigating whether we can afford a trip to NZ later in the year in honour of his 40th Birthday and the fact we’ve not had a proper holiday in years.

Oh. Annika has developed a fondness for a particular expletive. She likes to say it repeatedly, with gusto, and with a big smile on her face.  And I know she’s picked it up from me as I may utter it on occasion – when driving in traffic, when glues goes all over the carpet  - times like that. OK I swear a lot, and I think I need to stop it.   It’s a phase toddlers go through I know….  I hope it’ a short-lived one in our house.

Thanks for being part of my mama tribe

Becks xx

A sort of awesome place

On Wednesday mornings, I’m incredibly fortunate to have my mother-in-law come over to play with Annika for a few hours, giving me a little window in my week all to my very self! They have a ball – this week upon coming home my little bug was seated on a ‘throne’ and was wearing a crown and a cape with her teddies next to her – ladies in waiting.  They have such a wonderful time together.   Of course, the problem I have is sometimes deciding how to spend these three precious hours, and whilst I used to go to a yoga class without fail, I sometimes go for a wander to shops or libraries, and often include a coffee in there somewhere as well.  It’s a bit like my time of an evening – so many competing interests for those hours between Annika’s bedtime and my own.

One place I popped in recently was Garden Street Bazaar, which is at North Narrabeen.  I’ve known about it for a while, but it’s never been a good time to visit, and it’s not a toddler-friendly place. Downstairs is full of lovely antiques, including lots of vintage fabrics still on the bolt.  Upstairs is mind-blowing, and perhaps the only time I’ve even been pleased to not fit into anything because there were some seriously must-have items of clothing there if you are petite.   It’s so lovingly displayed and has quite a loyal clientele of customers I’m told.

 

If you’re over this way, it’s definitely worth a look. Be warned that parking is not fabulous. I managed to get a spot on the street about 100metres away, so you might have to go around the block a few times to nab one, or maybe I was just unlucky with my timing.

I saw so many items there that I remember from my own family home growing up, or those of friends.  There is a particular melamine (I think?) set of retro canisters that I often see in antique or vintage-y shops and my mum still has them in her pantry.  Bags them!

Thanks for being part of my mama tribe

Becks xxx

 

Pause

We’ve been going to the Parks a lot.  This one is in our street, so nice and handy for a stroll  when indoors is getting a little claustrophobic.  Unit-living.

And the libraries a lot. And snuggled under rugs at home reading a lot.

And doing lots of indoors stuff.  The sun goes over on our balcony by about 11am and it gets a bit cold out there, so means if we’re home, we’re generally doing indoors things. Like painting autumn leaves we collected earlier in the day.  And then cleaning paint off the carpet.

I’ve got one more assessment for Uni to do this semester.  I’m really loving Uni and am sad that it ends this semester until I work out what I’m doing….. more on that soon.

We had a lovely afternoon tea yesterday for Mother’s Day.  There is one passionfruit creme   shortbread left, and it’s been tormenting me all day.  Love is…  leaving the last one for your husband*.

I’ve nearly finished hand-quilting Annika’s apple lap quilt but have run out of the thread, and am having trouble getting more of the same. eeeep.

We’ve all had various degrees of colds, but they have not been too severe.  I look back at this time last year when we were all constantly sick and at the doctors and going a bit batty.  I prefer now.

I’m nearly finished my re-accreditation for Lifeline, so will be going back on the phones ‘on probation’ soon as a volunteer counsellor.

For mother’s day I got a zip-up greenhouse – for the balcony. I am hoping like crazy possums cannot un-do zips.  2 year olds can though.

Our plot at the community garden is blooming marvellous!  The peas are climbing up the trellis, and the zucchinis have pretty much taken over. I’m hoping they start growing some actual zucchinis soon – I can see some buds – so looking good.

I’ve been slack with the gym the last couple of weeks.

We’re  really wanting to get Annika her bed, and are thinking a Day Bed.  However it may need to wait till next month or even July.  The money thing.

We seem to have some good things on the horizon for the rest of May and into June:

Kamaroi Steiner School Fair

Visit to Nutcote at Neutral Bay 

Rug up one evening and head into the city for the Vivid Festival of Lights

Go to see the Archibald Prize at NSW Art Gallery and have picnic at Botanical Gardens

Cam was given a dining voucher for us (from a company he’s been doing a project for) to eat at Aqua.  Yay!

I’m also wanting to get in a day trip down to the Southern Highlands.

Life is good.

Thanks for being part of my mama tribe

Becks xxx

*edit: True Love is when he gives you half

Thrift Shop Thursday

Red Cross 

5/48 Old Barrenjoey Rd, Avalon, NSW

This week we ended up in Avalon.  It’s just that little bit out of our locale for general day to day goings here and there, but since I was there, we ended up going to the Avalon Community  Library and also to the Red Cross Oppy.  It was a little bit small and not really comfortable with a stroller, so I wasn’t there very long – nothing really dazzling me, except for an AMAZING timber dolls cradle that rocked, literally. It had heart shaped pieces carved out of the ends, and with a dash of paint would have been exquisite.  $10.  Believe me I agonised for a full three minutes.  And had a moment  whilst driving back around the bends that maybe I should turn the car around…   But I didn’t, because recently a lovely old lady gave us this one below.  So very generous of her – my girl LOVES it, and we

 

already have a timber doll cot, so I’m reluctant to let the doll folk in our house have more sleeping options than the humans.

So I walked away empty-handed, bolstered by the fact that I’d had op-shop success earlier in the week when I went down to Salvo’s Brookvale again. Told you I liked it there.  I bought a 12-piece Glass Punchbowl Set (made in France) complete with bowl, hooks, glasses and another matching bowl.  $12 for the lot.  I know they are hideous to store and rarely used, but at least twice in recent times I have wanted to utilise a punchbowl set and had to make do with a glass jug, so now, I have options!  This one will do just nicely filled full of sweet cold fruity punch come summer time.   I also could not resist that 2 metres of blue gingham it’s sitting on.  $4.  Add to the fabric stash…

Thanks for being part of my mama tribe

Becks xxx

Steiner Playgroup

We’ve recently started our second term at a Steiner Playgroup that is held at the Steiner school about 20 minutes from where we live.

We are enjoying it. It’s perfect for us for this year. Annika loves it. It’s a very warm and nurturing environment , very child centred and expressive.  The aspect of daily rhythms and rituals and celebrating festivals is something I find particularly grounding, and we’re looking forward to the school fair and winter festival activities over the next month.

Of a morning, we gather together in a circle and holding hands sing our welcome song

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good morning to you

Good Morning, Good Morning and how do you do

I love you, I love you, I love you I do,

I love you, I love you, and you love me too.

Good Morning dear sun

Good Morning  dear earth

Fish in the water, and birds in the air

Good morning dear flowers, 

Good morning tall trees

Good morning to you, and good morning to me.

Once upon a time, was it here, was it there

Come with me… come let’s see

We then go into a typical Steiner playroom, the children sit on the cushions that are waiting for them, and watch and listen to a verbal ‘story’. These stories are changed every three weeks and are related to the seasons, or a particular event.  The children are generally enchanted with the little puppets and scenes. Afterwards, we sing songs and rhymes and then go to the table to make bread. Once the bread is in the oven, we go outside for outdoor play, which is in the sandpit, or on the grass. There is a small vegetable garden and the children tend to enjoy filling up the watering cans and giving the plants a drink.  Sometimes we wander over to see the Chickens that live in a different part of the school.

Gentle singing indicating it’s time to pack away and go inside for indoor play, all the mums join in this harmonious call to tidy up, the children following our lead to go indoors.  Once inside we have morning tea, fresh fruit which we all bring, and our delicious fresh baked wholemeal bread rolls with butter.  Once we’re finished, it’s time for indoor play for the children who busy themselves with the toys and each other, whilst the mums chat , clean up and do some craft – normally a simple stitched toy using felt.

Towards the end of the two hours, we again join in a circle and sing our goodbyes, before putting on our boots and heading home.

So far the exposure we are getting at playgroup  and learning I have done helps me reflect on the influences I am willing to have form part of our lives, be it people, media, whatever, and to consider what they can add or detract from our experience.  I think this is a positive and helpful approach and is really just a version of mindfulness.  It feels very similar to my Yoga practice in a lot of ways. As does the element of rhythm.   In fact one book I was reading referred to the rhythms are ‘breathing in’ and ‘breathing out’ – i.e. time for quiet activities, followed by more active and physical play,  being indoors, going outside etc.  It just has a flow and sustainability that I find useful to think (and live) in those terms.  I get the vibe  (from books and blogs interestingly, not the actual people I interact with!) that there are aspects of Steiner that can be really prescriptive, but I’m not bothered by that so much, I’m not out to tick all the boxes, and we won’t be getting rid of our television any time soon.

And honestly, some of it I just don’t understand – it can be vague and difficult to gain any meaning from, but someone wise once told me when I had similar feelings about something else, to just ‘take what you need right now, and leave the rest’.  

So that’s what I’m doing.

Thanks for being part of my mama tribe

Becks xxx

This Moment

Inspired by Soulemama

A Friday ritual. A single photo, no words. Capturing a moment from the week. A moment I want to pause, remember and treasure.  If you’re inspired to do the same – I’d love to see your moment – leave a link in the comments!

Thanks for being part of my mama tribe

Becks xxx

Thrift Shop Thursday

Salvos Manly

22 Central Avenue, Manly NSW

Serendipity.  I discovered Salvos Manly when I went on a mission to find the Post Office in Manly.  For someone who has lived in this area for 14 years, and is in Manly every week, I’ve never gone to the Post Office there. Unbelievable.

So I posted my parcel and with a sleeping toddler in the pram had a good browse around the store.  I was tempted by a dusky pink dinner set for $20, but I left it there for someone else to enjoy.  The one thing I did really really covet was a bedside cabinet – I didn’t get a photograph, but there were two other people making enquiries on it whilst I was there. It was amazing.  It was also $75 and it’s just not the right time to be buying ad hoc furniture.

So I meandered over to the kidswear section, which was pretty disappointing, however ended up buying a pair of red pull-on corduroy pants for Annika $5 (not pictured) and this brand new knit  $5 – which is a bit little boy-y but I simply could not leave it there.  I think paired with her red cord skirt, some tights and red patent shoes will be rather sweet.

 

On a separate occasion this week, I popped into Lifeline Dee Why whilst was having a coffee and could not resist these mint green crocheted child-size coat hangers.  $2 for the three of them.  Have I mentioned how much I love thrift shopping?

 

Thanks for being part of my mama tribe

Becks xxx